The Ego does not care if its thoughts makes you feel better or worse its job is keep showing you injustice so that you will feel negative emotions which attaches you to the movie filmstrip of this world.

Guilt is the chain that holds us to it and to the earth. The kingdom of heaven is our natural state we have learned something new to take its place for the purpose of a contrasting experience. The kingdom is a state of mind that connects to you at all things space and time.

However you are also a spiritual being and you have certain inherited privileges over your other mammal counter parts. Although you can have sex like an animal no problem you are still a child of God. Trust that God gave your mind enough reason to see what is real and what is not real. Your emotions are capable of guiding you.

If your partner is highly manipulative it is because of this false idea has become their survival system. Don’t seek to judge them or set the straight instead seek that it will be corrected by God. You can’t change other people but you can hold in your Mind the ideal person and don’t let your Mind latch to one specific human being.

The universe can deliver more than one person to you if one does not work out. Since we don’t really believe in all that God stuff we stay with the ones who abuse us. It’ comes out as  love us the way we understand at this time in our life. Life can be pretty scary who can blame us for living this way.

You cannot fix anyone. Surrender that task to God who cannot fail to heal the mind of all beings in due time. This can be seen when a potential partner does something says something that makes you feel bad. If they are really good at their game then they can make you feel bad and then make you feel bad for feeling bad. In either role you are not a victim when your awareness is brought forward. You will never be easily fooled and your power will never be lost.

Things can seem logical but break down using reason based on truth then often the correct and answer is the simplest solution.

If logic was always right then guys who are mostly logical and analytical would get more hot sexy women. We know that’s not the case. More often it’s the alpha male inner game who is fearless, masculine and gets the most valued women. Seemingly their legacy continues on earth through their children since women choose the gene lines forward. Yet the same personalities come in to light every generation.

Women choose which genes move forward in our species. You must get to the inner part of yourself to develop some playful inner game if feel like you are not attracting someone. If you have not learned enough about yourself it can be tempting to adopt an inner game of the rock star, gangster or some other symbol of being in charge which women do want. They want you to be able to take them somewhere in a life experience.

These are symbols and labels but each person only needs to be themselves truly. If no one has told you then you should know you are a child of God, the universe or evolution however you want to look at it.

You deserve to be loved and to be cherished by a partner. Feelings that you are not worthily or good enough is an illusion. Even people who have been horribly disfigured or crippled have shown courage to live life. If a man who has toes sewed to what used to be fingers from a horrible accident can find an attractive partner then reason would suggest we all can. It is hard that’s why we came forth there are no real excuses to avoid living your life if you have the confidence of God on your side.

The girls want to know they still “got it” however a person with a feminine essence should work to clean up their vibration over time. If you are completely indentified with the body then you bring yourself suffering when the body fades in time. This is a punishment we have designed for ourselves to push us in the direction of God.

Manipulative People

Men should know that women have survived 1000’s of years by enhancing their ability to attract men. Women who like a lot of attention may choose men to give some attention to that don’t normally get a lot of attention from girls.

This will often lead to a woman who has a chain of men who are very interested in her. Willing to do anything for them and it gives them something to brag about with their girlfriends.

However it often leads to a lot of upset feelings towards a woman who does this. Her false belief is that she is a body that her survival is dependent on being attractive. She does not believe God will provide for her. In fact she doesn’t believe in God at all. The Man who falls for this trap believes attractive women are in scarcity that they are not good enough to be treated respectably by a hot woman.

Therefore they must be overly nice to make up for the lack in life experience.

Other mental ideas go like only men with money and good looks can get an attractive woman. These are false ideas think of them as growing pains we’ll out grow them. You are good enough you don’t need to be overly nice or compensate.

Especially in a loving act, let your left eye align with your partners left eye. This can connect your souls and is referred to as Soul Gazing. Your left eye should align with your partner’s left eye when getting ready to get ready for a sexual encounter. This can be done for several minutes at a time. This connects the right side of the brains of both people where emotional baggage is not handled or processed by the brain. It’s also the part of the brain that works with spirituality. A sought factor with sexual experience.

If you are woman then you will eventually understand that any guilt feelings you have about sex are simply the ego telling you that God is crazy, which is not true. Deep down inside many of us like to be guilty we like suffering. Feeling guilty can make you feel important. Many people have no guilt about sex but then guilt can manifest in other ways. Such as abusive lovers or taste in “junk” when it comes to members of the opposite sexual essence.

No sexual feelings for someone

If you do not want to have sex with someone or your feelings are telling you to wait then you should wait. Be direct and clear with your partner. You are not responsible for their feelings but you can make sure that you don’t go out of your way to make it an attack. Each being has the ability to manage their own emotions. To believe anything else is simply arrogance.

You can avoid having your partner feeling hurt by explaining the best you can about your feelings. Perhaps improve boundaries and don’t send a sexual vibration to your partner or potential partner if that’s not what you have in your mind.

If you saw someone driving a car you would not go pull them out of the car and beat them up. You would have to go get your own car. When you see a person you are interested in and they don’t respond to your queues. That is not evidence you are not good enough it’s evidence you are shooting to low by not really flushing out your desires. You can easily picture a car you want in your mind. Picture the general attributes in your mind about the kind of people you want to attract. Don’t get attached to specific people get attached to what you want and how you deserve to be treated.   

The thoughts in your Mind form beliefs which when activated create emotions that are felt in the body as communication. Some people have turned off their emotions but most people have some level of feeling left in their body. When one tries to resolve why he or she feels bad he reaches for what is closest to them. In most cases that is defense anger.

Of course you would feel justified in wanting to feel good. It is your right to feel good and feel secure. When someone hits on your partner you feel some outrage a sense of real injustice. Perhaps you have experienced loss of a partner or have been cheated on. People will tell you to calm down or take it easy but perhaps you feel justified to feel anger. Maybe even murder. It only makes sense if you live only by grabbing what seems close.

If you believe entirely in the world then you are more subject to its insanity. If you are joined with God in your thinking than no one can ever hurt you. According to your level of understanding your heart guides you in life. Things just work out better for you more often than not. Not that everything in life goes right that’s the idea of life and your job is to forgive the world.

When your thoughts get your heart moving, it gives off a radiation that can be measured by scientific instruments. The feelings in your heart radiates from your body in space time. Scientists like Greg Braiden describe how this works in detail. It does make our wording of things make more sense. The heart the actual pump in your body works with the brain to create reality in what seems like a solid world. That might sound unbelievable but if you consider your life there are some should be some anomalies where you found yourself with a miracle. Completely unexplainable. 

We communicate with our heart by way of radiation which can be measured 8 feet away. We describe things like this by saying we didn’t like someone’s vibe or vibration. You sense or feel something out them that they are projecting in their experience. Depending on what you put out there you will attract like minded people. How could God be fair if he did not give us some way to influence situations in even in the material world? In truth we are doing it all the time. It’s funny that the schools forbid praying. Your praying every time you take a breath and your thinking creates that vibration. That vibration goes out in to the world and brings back things that match your desires.

We are setup with feelings to help us guide us because we’re thinking too much for anything else to get through to us. 90 % of thought are completely useless. Thought is not who you are, who you are is silent and still but deliberate. Because of what we have learned we are not sure what to think about our feelings. So we take pills and consume drugs to feel good. Feeling good in usually our main priority it just feels right, like a perfect fit. If you practice you reach further beyond anger and other negative emotions. Just keep reaching for it every day and eventually it will be easier and things will arrive in your life that make it sustainable to feel like yourself. To feel good.

How long does that take? Well it depends on where you are and how disciplined you can be in reaching for better feeling thoughts. Don’t over reach just reach for the better thought. If you are on the ground you would not jump to the tallest branch but work your way up it. As you climb the tree in the universe reach for a better feeling thought hold it, hold it, hold it. Then let go and move to your day. It’s not easy but eventually the gap between the brain and the spirit begins to close. You begin to know your self. Maybe before all the conditioning set it you could say be yourself just “be yourself”. When this happens you will attract more people. If you can keep reaching for a better feeling thought then eventually you’ll be attracting a lot of people. A special person can arrive in your life and often does based on thinking good thoughts, feeling good as an indicated of right thinking. When bad thoughts come reaching for the better feeling thought keeps your pursuit moving.     

If you are a child of God and made in his image then you are perfect in every possible way. Perhaps your human form is not perfected. What your senses tell you is just a perception currently in your Mind which evaluates 1 % of reality. The world is not as real as it seems. Not to discount any suffering that anyone has ever had. It always feels real to everyone suffers even J suffered.

When you meet someone you are interested in if you get nervous or withdrawn then you are not being yourself you’re indentifying with other thoughts in your head. Growing up we often see people who are too nice or the other extreme tend to be what we call “players”. They have created an inner game to create attraction from others who get sucked in to that game. It’s for fun and mixing it up with each other.

There are those who believe they are not good enough and there are those who believe they are also not good enough and use games for a while attract a mate. Then there are some people who can be themselves and know that goodness of who they are is enough to attract a partner. Deeply good hearted people also exist in the world they always attract the perfect partner for them.

Guilt is an illusion and often women carry more than their fair share of this burden when it comes to sex. We say this because reason would suggest that since men are having a lot of sex that women are generally also having sex with them. Why do women get more blame? Again we are conflicted beings when we identity with the concepts of good and evil.

If you are a man and have personally seen the possibility of sex with a woman go up in smoke you have some recourse. You can discuss these feelings with your partner. Let them know it’s okay to feel that way but no one needs to judge them. See this as your sign to love or to show empathy.

You never want to force an issue simply offer a correction to misunderstanding. As an icon in our minds sex is still very taboo. Don’t be in such a hurry for sex you will have every opportunity to express yourself sexually. Even if it is impossible for you to find a mate it may happen in a future existence. You have to get your mind right then what you want will follow you.

If your partner withdraws from you sexually your default reaction could be to see it as attack on yourself. As they say “What you resist shall persist” and you must always never be react negatively when someone withdraws from you sexually. There is a 99% chance it has nothing to do with you at all even if they say it does. They may want to talk about it. If you take it personally and say something with attack in it you could close the door forever. If you’re married you may not experience sex for months.

Your perceived defensive attack over nothingness could seat their position on sex forever at least with you.

Sex is normal and loving sex is a healthy part of our lives. That is not a judgment on “anonymous sex” but neurologists tell us loving sex heals our brains and our bodies. Dr. Daniel Amen has written an excellent book on sex for more reading.

This is the era where men have lost their way believing only in this one life to live. That being said no one is helpless with God. If you could go back and change something in your life it probably start with getting as much information on the area of your interest before getting involved with it. You will have a life or many lives if you choose to believe that. Take your time have fun with forms in this world. Be informed on how to handle yourself before engaging in sex. Protect yourself love yourself.

Priests have tried to force this rule of celibacy upon themselves thinking it would make them better people. So have the kings of armies and rulers of the land. Many people have written about the strife in their lives trying to force themselves to be this way. Most of them had many many children but they tried anyways.

God bless them for trying but you cannot fake enlightenment when you are entangled in the world of good and evil. You know already the consequences to suppressed sexuality. The Catholic Church settled for millions of dollars after finding out that many of its priests were child molesters. For reference we believe this is an example of bad fruit. It simply does not work because you have to fix the Mind first. The fact of the matter is the world is pretty convincing of the injustice in the world. We’re ahead of ourselves here and that’s dangerous.

Those consequences seemingly appear much worse than if those priests who have just been allowed to marry which was eventually allowed. Dumb-asses. There are a lot of people who feel betrayed by God that their priest did unholy things them. Surely the heavenly father did not create this reality for us to be treated insanely by our priests. Surely we created a world that would allow us simply to live for the thrill of it. Once we were got here it got kind of thick and heavy for some people. As a result suffering emerged.

Even in the worst of us out there, it is always tugging and pulling you closer to Truth. Even in a death experience even in the last moments the realization can occur. Some Christian’s say it’s not fair that if someone repents on their death bed that they will not go to Heaven. In J’s parable about the men who worked a half day in the field and were paid for a full day J warns of people who will be angry that they received the same pay for what seemed like harder work.

The premise of the parable is that we’re all saved in the salvation. J didn’t suffer on a cross for you to feel guilty about that too but to remember life is an illusion. We’re all saved by the virtue God loves us nothing else is required. Hell is the device we created to burn off the addictions of earth. Eventually suffering leads to death or to something that awakens in us.

This is the madness of the world to cover it up rather than uproot the cause. Sexual acts which lead to orphaned children or disease are a symptom of a diseased Mind. The sex was meant to be symbolic for the connecting of Minds in a sacred prayer. If the Mind of each person involved in a sexual act does not connect fully with each other then they will never feel quite as satisfied with any one person or any particular sexual act.

The Madonna Whore complex where a man wants a whore who is a virgin is a directly implication of contradiction. The contradiction of the human dilemma is that there are two themes, good and evil. Our minds are split between being angles and being devils, shown to us in cartoons where a devil and an angel sits on our shoulders. He wants a virgin who is a whore in bed.

The symptom is not a sin it’s just misunderstanding of reality that produces errors. Who would not be confused in this world? It’s supposed to be confusing and blind you from the truth. That’s the beauty of it you are so sucked in to the life you have forgotten. When you remember it will be a glorious day.

In fact sex is amazing and the experience which creates all new life. There are a few who feel guilt, undeserving and downright judgmental about it. Perhaps they feel justified in those feelings by illegitimate children, poverty and disease from sex. Sex didn’t necessary lead to illegitimate children and disease. Those are symptoms not the causes of bad and false thinking.

It’s the out of date understanding of reality that leads to suffering. The only wide spread teaching on this topic is 2000 years old or 1500 years old if you are Muslim. It’s perfectly naturally for people to be confused. That was the whole idea behind earth and creation.

We wanted the world of ours to be convincing with scary things and good things. God has made a convenient with Man to eventually free us from this place or at least free us from the Mind which causes suffering. It also seems natural for people to want to hold the highest regard of their God. As long as that regard includes good and evil thoughts, it’s a misguided attempt to resolve God or reveal God to another person’s inner being.

They push against sex for many reasons. Mainly if you believe this human life is all you have then you would make bad judgments. Wrong information creates faulty results. If you believe you are an eternal being that lives forever and really believed that then you would make better choices you would take it easier on yourself.

However the human dilemma is not something that can be solved by covering up the symptoms. If you choose to give up sex it must not be a sacrifice AT ALL. It would happen naturally as your thought system becomes in alignment with God’s. When you abandon your thought system of fear which has lead to you suffering for God’s thought system you will have a “knowing”. You will do it willingly and will not feel any loss as a result of it. No sacrifice is required of you when it is your time. We are a pretty civil society these days. We would encourage you to read the books used to put together this writing you but you don’t have to. You’re well on your way even if you had never read this blog. It’s not what must be learned but what needs to be unlearned. We created this reality to see an opposite to God and that for a while will be fun. Then later we’ll do something else. Apparently we have a lot of time to kill in eternity.

It’s not the sex that makes it sin it’s the false ideas going on with the sex that has everyone in an up roar about. God is just waiting to be discovered. Once you discover who you are to God then that is so much more than the world could possibly offer you. I am not suggesting you actually believe this but that you consider the frame of reference God would see things. This is how it’s framed up for us to understand.

The average person has no idea what any of this means. They have forgotten completely what the feeling of God is like. People who claim to know are usually not telling the truth. They are more like pimps and gangsters taking the money of their followers. If you think about it you can probably think of one person in your life that was truly connected to life. They had something special.

The best our ancestors could do was create some fear about living in a life situation. Fear and guilt are what God is trying to fix in us. If you don’t see for certain you are an eternal being that lives forever how can you come to believe in anything? The easy way out is to use guilt and fear to get people to reform or at least appear as reformed. They are not reformed because it feels like a sacrifice to them.

Consider the heart ache after being betrayed, feeling hurt, dumped or feeling dead inside. How many people have had to resort to murder on this one topic? If you believe that lover is all you have then you would see it as attack on yourself if someone stole them away. If there was such a thing. If you knew for 100% certainly God was everything you needed and wanted you would not care in the slightest.

Another major reason to consider is there are 40,000 people a day in the USA alone who contract a sexual transmitted diseases. J is trying to protect you from yourself your own personal hell you would have for yourself. God does not create disease; bad thinking gave creation to disease. We would not discount anyone’s suffering but we assert that it’s possible to be healed of suffering.

Perhaps taking more responsibility for your life and how you feel inside. You will not be as affected by people who attempt to create happiness for you or sadness for you.

Do not assume God brought hell to you. Do not assume the hell you bring yourself will satisfy your creator’s vengeance against you. God’s justice is perfect and fair. Belief in drama creates the state of mind with hell and gnashing of teeth occurs as the consequence.

God as we know it has a big soft spot for us. God knows if we knew the truth would never attack anyone not even with a single thought. However the truth has only been alluded to in rhymes and riddles. How could anyone come to the same conclusions? Eternity is a long time God is patient and will slowly heal us and make us whole over long periods of time. If you knew everything then you would want it that way too. You can set out to do what you came here to do.